Why do you miss people... when do you miss them ... do you cherish them more than those whom you dont miss....Or do you just miss them cause they are not there with you.
Why is it that you dont value what you have?
Why do you want to have what you cannot?
Why do you miss them even when they are consciously not there with you ... when you know they dont want to be or when you know they cant be.
Why does one glance remind you of someone? a song, a movie, a patented dialogue, a smile, a wink, a laugh or even a gesture. How badly can you miss someone... And what do you do when you miss someone...
All the highs and lows that you went through together, all the obstacles that you crossed together, standing by each other in difficult times, reaching out with a helping hand ....
And then you take them for granted...expectations creep in and u get busy ...Busy , busy ...busy gauging how well they meet your expectations. You lay down rules, what you want to do ,,, what you dont want, what the other one should do ...what they shouldnt ...ignoring what they actually are doing for you.
And finally when you clear your mind of all these calculations, rating, gauging, questioning, the goods and the bads ... and you turn around..
they are no more there with you ... And they never come back .....
Void ...
M I talking about my breakup here ....Hell ..No !
Friday, May 25, 2007
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Hmmm...deep and very true!! I think this stems from the 'comfort feel' that we get from a person and the thought that there is always a tomorrow. When you start thinking that today is the last day, maybe we might start valuing our current relations and not take them granted!
hmmmm...i mite actually forgive that "rain" post after this!!
"taking for granted" is prob the worst thing to do to any relationship. Its never good to be on either side of such a relationship na?
Every time I think of you
I always catch my breath
And Im still standing here
And youre miles away
And Im wondering why you left
I hear your name in certain circles
And it always makes me smile
I spend my time
Thinking about you
And its almost driving me wild -- Johhny Hates jazz
it happens... when u get uprooted like that.. new places.. new faces.. new circle of friends.. yet u cant let go... and the busy factor.. well i've seen both sides... and its never a nice thing...
yet .. cheer up... things turn around... time will mature things.. and although u may not wish it now, some changes will be for the better...
U r not the first person to feel so, nor shall you be the last. Look within and things will be much better !!!
Hey thank you all for the generous comments on both the posts !
And GPS ... was this song Johhny Hates jazz ?
na janay kab say
umeedain kuch baaki hain
mujhe phir bhi teri yaad
kyun aathi hai
na janay kab say
- Aadat
yeah it was a song by johnny hates jazz... called "I aint missing u".. read the rest of the lyrics...
Well you have loads of company in this regard.. a lot many people feel in the same way.. U do not like it in the beginning..stuff learnt here will be cherished for life
whos this ?
u know who ..dont you?
that was yogi i think...
Still Wondering?
Bingo!
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